So to fix your code, it should use the | (logical or). Also, I assume you want to subset rows, so your subsetting command should be genedata[logical_expression, ] instead of genedata[, logical_expression]
so your code should be:
eset <- my_eset[my_eset$Disease == "control" | my_eset$Disease == "node negative breast cancer", ]
Thank you Kolea Zimmerman