Let me chime in with my little rant here. I get the different point of views, and I also know it's easy to become irate by some lazy posts. You might know me as the one... Whatever, I don't agree fully that showing a posting guide to users or new users is elitist. I think there is definitely the need for more clear guidance on posting and asking questions. Currently there is zero guidance, at least on the "ask a question page", and being considerate, polite, showing empathy are all fine and good traits, but that doesn't mean we can't improve the site. I know, you guys have written the '10 useful hints guide for getting help.....', but why is it not linked on the site?
Such improvements would indeed benefit new users most, otherwise it is hard to complain about users not searching in advance, and giving too little information. Look at SE https://drupal.stackexchange.com/help as an example.
Also compare https://stackoverflow.com/questions/ask and https://www.biostars.org/p/new/post/ both minimalistic but there is one important difference. The SE site has a box on how to ask a question with a link and the biostars site has not.
Ram's initiative is also a move into the right direction.
This content should be accessible from the ask a question page.
A major advantage of having some documentation: the "told you so" effect, at least users could have gotten the information easily, if they wanted; having something to link something makes it much easier for the mods. Now, we have to explain almost each and every time, how to report a problem properly. I mean, I totally get it that a biologist who is new to bioinformatics does not immediately know what is relevant information to describe a problem. And that is totally fine and in order. You need to have developed software, debugged or written code, and analyzed a lot of data to get a feeling for this. Still, it would be very helpful to have some document, stating,
"yes, it is relevant what operating system, sequencing machine, exact error message, etc." you are dealing with.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't use SE as a role-model for everything on Biostars, the community there is certainly hostile sometimes (does it have something to say that even I perceive it like this;), and they are much more restrictive with what you can post over there, e.g. anything that even remotely smells like a bug report would get closed.
Another set back is that the search on Biostars is not that good imo, it is often easier to use google restricted to biostars.
I agree with the "you'll learn to deal with it gracefully" part. It is especially effective because people are more willing to listen and adapt when you're guiding them instead of yelling at them.
What I think we need is an outlet for mods to let off steam. I think that part is becoming a little too explosive of late.
we need like a "meta" channel, that filters for some type of discussions that otherwise do not show by default on the main page