I will add GLU to the list.
GLU: GENOTYPE LIBRARY AND UTILITIES
Whole-genome association studies are generating unprecedented amounts of genotype data, frequently billions of genotypes per study, and require new and scalable computational approaches to address the storage, management, quality control, and genetic analysis. GLU is a framework and a software package that was designed around a set of novel conceptual approaches. GLU addresses the need for general and powerful tools that can scale to effectively handle trillions of genotypes.
http://code.google.com/p/glu-genetics/
Since the OP requested an R package for HWE, Allelefreq and Association. I would recommend the package called SNPAssoc
You can download the package from CRAN
http://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/#available-packages-S
SNPassoc: an R package to perform whole genome association studies
Juan R. González, Lluís Armengol, Xavier Solé, Elisabet Guinó, Josep M. Mercader, Xavier Estivill and Víctor Moreno[?]
Reference: Sole, Guino, Valls, Iniesta, Moreno (2006), "SNPStats: a web tool for the analysis of association studies", Bioinformatics, 22(15):1928-1929.