The information about strand of the read is in the FLAG column in the SAM file. You can use this little tool to look up the FLAG value to see what it represents:
http://picard.sourceforge.net/explain-flags.html
The SAM specification has more detail.
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Is the data from a stranded/directional prep? If not, you can't. If so, which one, since this depends on that.
Edit: I should mention that I'm reading into your question that you want to know the original strand of the fragment sequenced by the paired-ends.
Edit2: And cross-posted at seqanswers.